Ladies and gents I have some dating issues that needs to be sorted out.?

For some reason i just dont fell compelled to be in a relationship ne more is this normal? i have realized that when your single life is much more simple and it isnt so dramatic. and if i do get into a relationship im leaning toward "letting it happen naturally" way. instead of me asking out girls out on a date and later on it ends up being a disaster and things dont go the way i want them to and all that time and money i invested just goes down the drain so i dont really see the point anymore. is this the right approach or what do i do?